Emotional Intelligence

Hi folks,

Hope you have had a great week!

I have been thinking lately about what elements are vital when we are recovering and healing from our past and trying to become a better person and experience more happiness.

We have skills and strategies that come from Psychology based theories; Cognitive behaviour therapy, Neuro linguistic programming, Emotional freedom techniques and many more.

But I honestly believe at the core of all healing is a practice that is overlooked and that practice is one of ‘Emotional Intelligence. 

Intelligence is generally thought of on an intellectual level, but what about being able to manage our emotions to improve and enhance our lives and in society? Should we not take responsibility for the impact we can have on others and also how we create and protect our own happiness? If you have ever experienced anxiety, I have no need to tell you how powerful it can be, taking you to the brink of fear and often paralyzing you. If you have fears of abandonment and separation anxiety, you know that the strong emotions can drive you to do things and act out in ways you never normally would.

Yes it’s true, emotional intelligence is indeed a key player in our lives so why is it not many are teaching it I wonder?

Maybe it’s because emotional intelligence is not directly linked to financial success in society? Yet is it so important. I mean you can have the greatest education and be a fountain of knowledge, but if you cannot go out into the world and share what you know with others, through confidence and belief in yourself, combined with a resilience to let go of rejection, what good is it?

Would you not want to be able to not get offended so easily? To be flexible in your outlook? Be a good judge of character? Play to your strengths, know your weaknesses and choose wisely what people and situations are good for you and be able to say ‘NO’ without feeling fear of guilt, reprisal or rejection?

Imagine being able to delay gratification and avoid taking impulsive action.To let go of mistakes and no longer beat yourself up and berate yourself.

Are you currently able to give without expectation of anything in return? Not hold grudges and either remove toxic people from your life, or manage your way around them so as to not rock your own emotional boat of balance and happiness?

There are many other ways that we can become emotionally intelligent and all of them have a huge impact on the results in our lives, our relationships with ourselves and others, our mental wellbeing, health, wealth and how we experience life on a day to day basis.

So I invite you to join me on an Emotional Intelligence journey in January 2021, where I will be offering my newly created course ‘Life Success through Emotional Intelligence’.

In the course which has 12 modules, you will be offered a deep dive into:

  •  Why is it important to be Emotionally Intelligent?
  •  What happens in our lives when we aren’t Emotionally Intelligent?

I will teach you skills and strategies that you can begin to use straight away and truly overcome obstacles that you have been struggling with for a long time and create a happy, healthy, wealthy and most importantly, love filled life.

Look out for the email with a link to purchase the course coming soon. Where you the subscriber will be able to invest in the course for just 29 euros (normal price 129 euros)

Wishing much love, happiness and healing

Nicola xx

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